CBT is lame in that it still leaves the fear process active. Nick, I too appreciated Johns thoughts, and especially when he said there are endless battles to be fought. Endless. Val. Healing takes time and expertise. Im in my early 30s and I suffer from extreme social anxiety and I have no friends. Or are we all left to make up our own minds as to what is, and is not readable? Get educated and get out. Just be nice to the rest of the family dont talk to mom about anyone . Itsy bitsy teenie ones. Lucie, I really hope this helps a little. I contracted CoVid from him then even though I had a mask. But the second you stick up for yourself, they become angry, hateful and are quick to turn the tables on you to find reasons or excuses to blame you for they way THEY act. Never really thought of it as a demon but thats a Good analogy . Plus I feel like a real nothing in this world. I will take care of myself and I am always there. Forty years later. Thats how you know youre still alive, I think. Wowthank everyone. Ooooo how they wiggle and squirm. For many years I referred to myself as a "country boy," but at age sixty, that designation might be a little farfetched. Its is way better living by yourself then with people who will ignore and make you feel self-conscious all day long. He can tell theres something wrong with you. When a friend doesnt text us back right away, it says, I wonder what shes thinking. Well I seem to have always met the opposite dishonest never there when you need help and would steal from me. I dont find socialising easy, used to ride motorcycles and took up hobbies that didnt require me to get involved with other people. You can do it! Anyway, the feelings and observations expressed by the others in this group have given me some needed insight. I'm still not sure if he made up this song or if it was borrowed from someone but the little ditty went like this "Nobody likes me, everybody hates me, I think I'll go eat worms. Worm One of Ten (2011), by Maximilian Toth. Im 43, single, have a son who is 18 and no other family. Nobody likes me, everybody hates me, I've always embraced this part of myself, the background of a rural life. Just to be a fly on a wall to see how other people become accepted would be worth all I have. Enjoy this story? Scott and Diane, wow, I can totally relate, I wish you both a solution or a remedy to your/our feelings and thoughts; because honestly life is beautiful we just need to see it through positive eyes, I wish I could sit here and just express my personal feelings and thoughts and experience but like a busy single mom/woman, I dont have time, but I do wish you the best and keep your head looking forward, dont hide or be ashamed for we all have a purpose in this world. An activity to make singing this song more fun involves handing out gummy worms to the kids so that they can bite into them when the song is over. Thats your power. There are a lot of people around me and I can get them like me if I want to. Whenever I try to engage myself in one of the other peoples conversations, I get sucked into a black hole of pointless sentences, where like, um and so are like pieces of dust in a desert. There is perhaps no more painful thought in the world than that of nobody likes me. Its an easy feeling to indulge and dwell on, a terrible go-to self-attack in low moments when we feel isolated, depressed, anxious or insecure. When they compare themselves to you, they feel bad about themselves, which makes you feel bad about yourself. Long, thin, slimy ones; Short, fat, juicy ones, I grew up very outgoing and social, Hello I always feel lonely when my gf goes out and enjoy her self or she is either on her phone and Im sat there bored and shes never off it. When the sort fat fuzzy ones stick to your teeth their blood goes oohie oohie ick. I could very much relate with what you said about the people that supposedly love you. But the comments were all over the place: some readers cursed Skurnick for revealing a plot twist, others laid into her as thought she had somehow decided that killing newborns was the desirable thing to do. We can then recognize how our actions are affected by this destructive thought process. Towards the beginning of Shelley's drama, The Earth recounts: What was Shelley's basis for this idea? :)), Where and how do you find no friends? Sometimes I just dont get the world, and why its like this for me. I found peace and self-love.. confidence. This part of the country does not readily offer nightcrawlers. I dont understand why people dont like me, Im not an ugly girl, Im not mean, and I dont know what Im doing wrong. We neither acknowledge nor disregard its presence or function. And that makes me feel stupid. Anyone who has not had our experience will try to find some reason that the problem is something in our behaviour. I understand all too well and just writing this is exhausting, if anyone gets that. Yardsticks: Children in the Classroom Ages 4-14 : A Resource for Parents and Teachers (Expanded). For the longest time I tried to form lasting friendships, meaningful relationship, and change myself to make my parents like me. Talking to your childs teacher is often helpful. Maybe because Im not very good at communication, *****Susan Alfred sent her version:Worm song version I learned as a kidNobody likes me everybody hates me, guess I'll eat some worms.Big ones, fat ones, long ones, skinny ones, you can watch them squirm.Bite their heads off, suck their juice out, throw their skins awayWish I could have them 3 times a dayIn between meals too*****Stephen M. Ashe sent this version:Nobody likes me, everybody hates me I think I'll eat some wormsbig fat juicy ones, long skinny slimy ones,itsy bitsy fuzzy worms, yum yum!First you bite the head off, then you suck the guts out,then you throw the rest away,big fat juicy ones, long skinny slimy ones,itsy bitsy fuzzy wuzzy worms, yum yum!Down goes the first one, down goes the second one, down goes the third little worm,big fat juicy ones, long skinny slimy ones itsy bitsy fuzzy worms, yum yum! am so lonely! People are always annoyed when Im happy and tell me to stfu and Im often forgotten about. I feel we are one in the same! Like you, I go in hopeful and happy, and later find Im not included. I dont know if I using colorism on this forum is ok so Ill keep it brief. There are people who care about you. Untold fortunes have been made from the song and I never saw a penny of royalties! Big fat juicy ones, A more sanitary way is to simply boil the worms until the water is clear. Right now its like all human contact I have turns bad. Im just a bad person, I understand things that so many others dont see. Bernie this is very interesting, and Im not going to argue and say youre wrong. And dismissed by one wag as a "no talent media whore." The underbelly stacks up ten high The dummy failed. I asked if she had any examples or specific instances, or could elaborate more on the feeling but she had nothing else, she just said it was too vague and general to pinpoint more than that. I know I am smart and clever, and a good sense of humour. And these days are the times when I break down.. go back to feeling like its me. People create their image of the average lonely person and stories like yours arent heard that often. I see happy families and couples and think of me alone and its depressing. So, if your inner critic tells you to stay in seclusion or to keep your mouth shut at a party, uncomfortable as it may feel at first, you have to find a way to not indulge in the behavior. Either they werent my type or vice versa. Sorry , Lucie, thank you for saying all of that. *****Jurzay Kelpin wrote:"The version I got taught in school is"Nobody likes me, everybody hates me guess I'll go eat worms, Big fat juicy ones, little wet wiggly ones, watch them wiggly and scrum,Bite there heads off, suck their guts out, I don't see how birds can live off worms three times a day, Nobody likes me, everybody hates me. Keep doing the things that you enjoy doing. I had another child & stopped staying over, during the festive season. Find your happy place try to be more social. ^-^, So, while we may feel alone in thinking nobody likes me, we actually have that in common with a staggering number of people in the world. We moved to this house about 3 years ago and have joined 4hs, youth groups, music lessons, homeschoolers co-op, even baby sitting and nothing sticks! I would encourage anyone to just accept it. I dont really like very many other people all that well, either. No one likes me.They think I m weird n even my own friend makes fun of me.I feel alone in my class. Unemployed . Or how my second wife wants me to be with her, except that consists of me watching her play on her phone. I have literally been told by almost everyone I meet that nobody likes me. Yes Snowy, the sentence everyone else emanates some kind of invisible glue that makes other humans stick to them, and we are somehow born without that is something which makes me feel so helpless, so miserable and just take the live out of me as if I have been slapped right on my face. PsychAlive. , No one like me too but my sister is so lucky and have lots of friend. I agree With you Sarah. And usually she uses my business as a target for her attacks.. Is it possible that we have the article here under a slightly different title? It may bring us up too! This morning, I told a lady that I had been trying to get a taxi for 5 minutes before she arrived right next to me. I feel soo unwanted unloved and useless my husband has an OCD problem he fights with me everyday over household chores, he makes me feel like i can do nothing right. After reading the article, my coping mechanism is to read comments, to know how people are reacting to this, am I alone or there are people who think like me, and the next minute I find myself crying while reading each one of the comments as if they are of my own and this is because its exactly like I am feeling, I dont know how to express myself in few words and hence the long para, people say lets text and talk about this but somehow the truth is I feel, they are feeling this at a particular moment or for the time being, but maybe the other person is contacting them when they are at their happy phase and in this way when their frequency are not matching they wont be able to understand or be able to listen to them 100 percent. Long, slim, slimey ones, Big, fat, juicy ones, Itsy, bitsy, fuzzy, wuzzy worms. Im 68 years old and dont have one person who ever cared about me. I believe in you guys and know you can do anything. 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